Sunday, April 20, 2008

The History of Corsets


Corseted women were often depicted in the pottery and carvings of early civilisations such as Crete, Assyria and Egypt. There may have been a link between corset wearing and the worship of the sun and of snakes, which were credited with magical powers; a coiled serpent symbolised the sun. One Cretan urn, over 5,000 years old, shows a priestess of the snake cult wearing a bronze corset with the classic hour glass shape, fastened at the waist by two serpents, whose heads and tails meet.The Romans used tight lacing as a form of domination over slaves to show their subjugation and low status, in contrast to the loose robes of their masters and mistresses. Early Christian fanatics would, as a penance, bind their waists with rope until it cut into their flesh, and in contrast the dissolute women of Alexandria and Constantinople mocked this zeal by wearing elaborate tight belts, made of precious metals and decorated with jewels.
From the 15th century, the hour glass figure was fashionable again with both men and women, who wore bodices stiffened with wood, whalebone and even wrought iron corsets. Henry III of France had a tiny waist which was the envy of the court. His mother, Catherine de' Medici, imposed a 13 inch limit on her ladies and their maids. Even allowing for bodies 400 years ago being smaller than modern ones, these "cages" must have been intensely painful. The trend continued into the 18th century and comfort was not the only thing sacrificed to fashion; a letter of Horace Walpole's in 1777 describes the other restrictions of ladies' corsets with steel bones: "If a hero attempts to storm such strong lines, and comes to a close engagement, he must lie as ill at ease as St. Lawrence on his gridiron.".
Men too suffered; 19th century beaux frequently laced their corsets tightly - in 1834 that great dandy "Prinny", the Prince Regent, was warned "to give up his stays as the wearing of them any longer ... would kill him".
The Victorian age saw the last great heyday of the corset, when the tinier the female waist, the more attractive a figure was considered. A girl's ambition was to be married before 21, with a waist measurement less than the years of her age.
In pursuit of this ideal, corsets were laced so tightly that numbness in the lower body and legs and even fainting were frequent occurrences, reinforcing the popular image of the female as a fragile, helpless creature. In reality, women had to be true stoics, enduring severe discomfort while remaining outwardly serene; it was considered disgraceful to show any distress, especially in front of the maid pulling on the laces, or in company. Even when sleeping, they did not escape, as a night-time model would often be worn, in order to maintain the waist reduction achieved during the day.
For the Victorians, with their repressed sensuality bubbling under the surface, there was more to all this masochism than the mere pursuit of fashion; in 1870, a reader of "The Englishwoman's Domestic Magazine" naively wrote that "tight lacing produces delicious sensations, half pleasure, half pain". In an age of heightened prudery, the corset was in fact a socially acceptable method of self titillation!
It was also an acceptable method of torture; many of the trappings of this obsession with waist reduction would not be out of place in a modern dungeon; the unfortunate young girl being "figure trained" hung onto an overhead bar while mother and maid hauled on the laces; an extra long and tight corset was a favourite method of disciplining recalcitrant girls, sometimes with metal screws to tighten more than was possible with laces; a stocking needle might be placed in a schoolgirl's busk to improve posture - any drooping of the head would result in a sharp prick to the chin!
The fad for tiny waists gradually disappeared from fashion around the First World War, and was replaced by a more natural figure and less restrictive underwear, mirroring women's growing emancipation in society.

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Corsets and Sex




Corsets have gained respectability in the last few years, finding their way onto the glossy magazine fashion pages but it shouldn't be forgotten that a corset has all sorts of erotic uses too! Partners can help with the putting on - they'll enjoy transforming your figure and being laced into a corset can be an exquisitely sensual experience; the laces slide across your back as they are pulled gradually in from the top and bottom towards the middle, and the sensation is of being embraced tighter and tighter.
Wearing a corset can help get you both into the right mood - corsets enhance any woman's body, giving not just a smaller waist, but fuller breast and hips which swell out provocatively. The sexual parts are very much on display, which gives a feeling of intense femininity.
Once you've pulled the laces in, you don't have to settle for tying them in a bow - make the most of the length if you are into tying each other up. There is also a lot of scope for domination games; apart from the bondage angle, there is nothing like lacing someone tightly to emphasise your control over them and the long loops can be used to lead the wearer around.
The other advantage of wearing a corset for sex is that you don't have to take it off at the critical moment - all the important bits are still uncovered.If you feel like indulging in a spot of fantasy, a corset is a great inspiration, fitting into all sorts of scenarios; wear it with long cotton bloomers and transform yourself into a Victorian maid, tavern wench or southern belle; wear it with a long skirt and a feather boa for a glamorous film star look; or team it with a G-string, stockings and suspenders and become a hooker for the night - restricting your waist needn't restrict your imagination!

Women and Corsets



THERE IS no doubt about it, the corset is firmly back in fashion; from couture catwalks to High Street shops, this season's look in dresses, suits and evening wear is a nipped-in waist with bosom and hips proudly on display. And for those not blessed with a natural hour glass silhouette, the quickest way to get that look is to suck in and lace up.
Maybe it's a reaction against years of androgynous skimpy underwear, but now we are buying lingerie which really does something for our figures and emphasises our femininity. Let's face it, singlets and briefs might be practical, but they are not very sexy; and with a corset, even the flattest chested can enjoy instant curves.
The 21st century corsetted woman may feel in control of her 19th century style figure and sexuality, in a way her Victorian counterparts never could, but watch out - you may be sending a stronger message than you realise.
Some scientists now believe that the most powerful human sexual trigger is the female waist. In experiments in the USA, men rated as most attractive (sexually and for childbearing) women of average weight with curves, which meant waists 24 to 28 inches with 36 inch hips or waists 27 to 31 inches with 40 inch hips.
Interestingly, this ratio is now recognised as a key indicator of health and is also linked to fertility, as oestrogen, the female sex hormone, concentrates fat on buttocks, while testosterone, the male hormone, builds fat around waist.
So by wearing a garment which emphasises your waist you are actually sending men a powerful subconscious message which says, "I'm young, female, healthy, and ready to mate with you and have your baby." So use it carefully!

Wearing a Corset


A PROPER corset is completely different from a basque or waspie, neither of which are designed to pull in the waist. The real thing comes in two halves, laced together at the back and fastening at the front with a steel busk, with springy spirals in the lining all the way round to give that wonderful hour glass shape (whalebone has not been used for many years).
All this metal may sound cumbersome, but don't let it put you off. Today's styles are light and flexible and surprisingly comfortable. Many people find the sensation of being gently held straight with the back supported almost relaxing.
Being laced into a corset can be an exquisitely sensual experience; the laces slide across your back as they are pulled gradually in from the top and bottom towards the middle, and the sensation is of being embraced tighter and tighter. You don't have to pull in to a Scarlet O'Hara 18 inches - you may be content with the corset just hugging you or you can lace down to an iron grip. When you order, giving your own measurements, we select the best size for you to ensure a snug fit all over. A corset should mould itself to your body after you have worn it a few times and you can gradually lace a bit tighter if you wish.
First time wearers are usually surprised and delighted when they look in the mirror; corsets enhance any woman's body, giving not just a smaller waist, but the impression of fuller breasts and hips, giving a feeling of intense femininity.